The art to anal sex is simple!..she must enjoy it! For me, I need to connect to her physically. I love my wifeys body language. It lets me know if her asshole is not relaxed all the way..if I need to add more lube. Some times I need to adjust the way I’m going in her ass. I can feel my wifeys asshole get totally relaxed and I can start pounding away..but not always. My wifey loves her ass pounded!..but she also likes the nice, slow, long strokes to wher I barely pull the head of my dick out her ass and then slide it right back it. Kinda like a mini gape. Its different then gaping her fully because in a full gape I pull out all the way and spread her ass to see her ruined asshole. The mini gape is to pull the head of your dick out all the way, but just barely, and slide back in her asshole. She loved this the last time we had anal. She came about five times. I love touching her back, spanking her ass, rubbing her thighs, pulling her hair, etc..but I know which one to do because of her body language! Damn I trained her good! I love my Anal Queen! Shes whistling for me now..booty calls!